This column appeared in the Los Angeles Times this week. I have read it several times since, and it cracks me up every time. Chris Erskine exactly nailed what it is like to live with a little four year old.
I too, have this little person marching around happy overjoyed to discover a long "lost" toy (in his toy box), to learn that he gets an extra muffin, to try out the "big boy" slide at the park, or to tell me about his dinosaur stickers from Brandon or the ice-cube experiments at school. And I, too, use lots of panicked-run-together phrases like WHO-LET-THE-CAT-INTO-THE-HAMSTER-ROOM!?! He does indeed believe that good guys always win (especially in his Superhero Village, shown in these photos. Yes, that's a "zip-line" that slides the bad guys straight into a huge bucket of water, and a hamster cage that doubles as a jail).
It's true he doesn't have lots of control around here, and his big sister does indeed try to maneuver lots of his play and daily actions. We also have yogurt on the floor, as well as Life Cereal, following breakfasts, and he does indeed wink at - and flirt with - people, especially waitresses, and everyone thinks he is soooooooo cute. But he really is, and his spirit really is T-h-i-s B-i-g, this infectious and collective sense of goodness, of ebullience, of wide-eyed appreciation of "the little things."